Friendships

Jesus Christ. . . It's been a long, hot, tiresome and boring day. Had a couple of things i had to stay home and supervise so no going out today and that makes it day 2 on that path. It's been boring staying around artisans, tryna make sure they get it all done right so on the other end, i bore myself because whatever they do is none in my interest. Worsening it all, the last time i saw the lights come on in this house was 5am yesterday so that leaves me with just this tiny 6300 and i was so suprised when blogspot.com opened on it. So i'm writing you from my humble tiny mobile phone. . Isn't that awesome. . By the way, what do we think of friendships? Can one really survive without friends? Or can one strictly stick to having only same sex friends or the other way round? Which do you think is more appropriate? Personally, either sex is ok to me cos i sure don't buy the idea that one can survive without friends. Everyone needs a friend once in a while and thats what gradually results to relationships and marriages in most cases. I prefer friend of the opposite sex basically because there is more understanding and jealousy is very minimal. It's normal that your best friends probably have best friends so whatever you tell them, they tell others but we still have to understand that it's not everything that happens to us that we tell others. We have to be very calculated in our actions and the way we handle friendships even as simple as it seems, if not guided and watched closely, could bring a lot of harm and sadness. Recently, a good friend of mine told me she is laid back cos of how i spoke to her sometime ago when we had some issues pending. Well, i thought she'd have known my kinda person and understood me regardless of whatever mood i'm in but guess i was wrong. And efforts to make things right just seemed silly of me cos she had moved on to other things. You know, that point in time when a dear friend tells you ''it's d part of me that heals slow, you put me off and now we are cool, i can't seem to leave things that kept me solace while you were gone''. . Now, thats heart breaking but like i always say, life goes on, it's all good. So my dear reader, keep your friends closer. To hell with that saying of keeping enemies closer. In the real sense of life, it's those that know you that can bring you down. Be yourself and never be quick to jump into conclusions, i try not to. God bless you